Push Comes to Shove.

by The Obvious Tells

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1.
Shapeshifter 01:27
SHAPESHIFTER Faggot to fetish to unfuckable mess You laugh at my face and you stare at my breasts I’m a shapeshifter I manipulate gaze Change presentation just to feel safe What is an act - what is innate? Do I get desire, derision or hate? Do you see woman Do you see fag Just a washed up transsexual hag You falsely believe the truth’s in between You refuse to see me as a human being But still I gotta to let my body be seen So I play your fucking games Know a little forethought changes the perception you got But its so fucking hot Gonna take my shot Do you see me as a woman today Am I threat or am I prey? Remember my gender never make a mistake But oh god there’s days I just want to break And I’ll lie and I’ll respond to sir Die a little inside but I won’t get hurt Hoodies are magic And I can’t be stopped By the lies and the hatred, the self proclaimed cops But sometimes just to get what I want I got to turn down the magic and I choose a new top So I pull up my hood when I want to turn off The catcalls the glares and the hate that you’ve got Nothing I like about being perceived Read the tattoo on my wrist it says she slash her
2.
Pride 00:40
Not going to stoop to define myself By things I’m against or where I need help Fights that they started are just fucking that And I choose the terms and I’m taking it back Taking it back Taking it back You fucks hits a little a different when you’re fucking gay realize your an outcast; born this fucking way hardcore pride is a fucking sham you left us at the curb when the fights began You like to stay out of politics That’s a really privileged trick We can’t afford it We can’t afford it There are lives on the fucking line This ain’t no god-damn game My friends and I are fucking scared You’re just having another day
3.
Dicks 00:52
DICKS You have to stop having strong emotions about penises. Like we, as a society, have got to stop caring about dicks! We will never be free If you continue To equate me With one piece Of my Anatomy My presence ain’t an attack And you need to disbelieve That a woman with a dick Is somehow a threat But you’ve got strong feelings ‘Bout what this thing represents Dicks don’t have to symbolize a thing Not dominance, or aggression This just exists This isn’t maleness Or sexuality It’s just another fucking part of me
4.
Truscum 01:23
TRUSCUM Go! There is no space For truscum Here You demand sickness but I am okay I wouldn’t wish my trans-ness away The pills the shots Or the patches I’ve got It’s only one fucking way Never enough if we don’t behave Assimilate Passing’s the game I am fucking fine Never being cis There is no space For truscum here Transmedicalist schemes Have to disappear I won’t buy it And I deny it! Gatekept enough by the doctors I’ll never listen to you They’ll never accept us If normals the goal Don’t you know that there’s a long way to go And you’re sabotaging us Fuck you I salute your surgeries Take every attempt be who you wanna be But don’t expect the same from every fucking journey We found life outside the binary We found space for all my friends and me However we are we’re just how trans should be And I’m never going back Again I’m hard binary and I’m here to say that transition is a fucking journey with no destination sometimes And you never win, There’s no A to B no final boss But don’t let anyone take your transness away from you No one
5.
CHOSEN FAMILY I have two daughters not of blood but chosen family A couple siblings mean the fucking world to me We keep each other safe We took each other in I can’t imagine my life without them I know that I am lucky And that there are way too few Who were born with blood like mine I’ve seen too many lose their line And tho I’ve had some luck with happenstance Blood relatives and romance Chosen family means as much to me I have two daughters not of blood but chosen family Still hurts a bit That that’s the extent of mother in me But I can’t breed and I don’t wanna pass my genes And I’m scared enough for the world I leave them Everybody dies in the end And we’re watching it burn around us makes me sick as it sinks in If you can’t take this seriously What will I be leaving them? You say I’m crazy But I’ve lost too many friends I have siblings not of blood but chosen family And I’m gonna do everything I can To see that they outlive me All I ever wanted Is their life to have a little ease But it might be too late for me But they won’t have my memories
6.
RESPONSIBILITY I struggle to be kind when you expect me to be strong inside another box of definitions if I don’t fit I don’t belong And expectations of masculinity have given way to what? Inspiration but for who? And god I’ve just had enough And do I have responsibility to those who followed me? I can barely keep myself together Now you’ve asked me to lead I can show you the path I took But know that there will be regrets Society makes it hard for us and we haven’t solved that yet and I cringe inside when I see you make the same mistakes as me and I wince inside ‘cause I know what’s next when they come out to to me But we stick it out Tho some strike out Cross out old letters change our names I guess this is my legacy But I didn’t make you trans I apologize I’m not perfect Inspiration porn It looks so easy when it starts It’s all new and you’re reborn And I only show the good parts Just a little bit of the tears But it’s not my fault you lost attention When things got fucking real.
7.
TOMBOYCORE 00:51
TOMBOYCORE You can’t stop me As I define my femininity And this is who I’m supposed to be Trans gal tomboy-core But I’m still a goddamn she Androgyny don’t negate a trans identity And I’m still a woman Just cause you don’t want me Doesn’t make it false Check it! Get it correct It’s simple respect Don’t owe you anything Get it correct or get lost My femininity don’t fit your bill And I don’t jump thru hoops And I never will I tried to assimilate and play your game All I ever got was dicks in my DMs
8.
ONLY 90'S KIDS REMEMBER If you don’t like that my voice is pitched low You shoulda let me be a girl when I said so  A queer history that you didn't teach meant I didn't know that this was in reach Instead I got a gay-straight-alliance just a place where I learned to shut up and be quiet Cause this was an act and this was a costume There's was things to which I was accustomed  Denial and hatred being chief among them I hated myself and the thoughts that you brought in Invasive for sure, but what's a kid s'posed to know 'Bout gender and sex when you never said "so - We’ve noticed you've been writing down words  Wearing dresses and acting absurd" I mean I appreciate that nobody narc'd  But you didn't know what to do  And I'm in the dark When you taught me 'bout Pride  Why didn’t you mention  Trans women and queers Where was Rivera and Johnson  Revisionist history - and maybe it's fuzzy  But a mention in passing woulda been lovely I caught the wrong episode  "Up next on Springer" You saw the freaks, man,  But I saw a dead ringer They didn't tell me what I could be Left on my own - waiting  Let’s See  That's the thing that bothers me most I didn't try  cause I didn't know There's things I should have done in my twenties Whole decades of girlhood just stole the fuck from me You stole my childhood, my true adolescence  Just for what?  To teach me a lesson? I'm not all mad  Y’all didn't know But I’m making sure this never happens again Never happens again I’m not mad You didn’t know But I’m making sure this never happens again

9.
I BELIEVE IN YOU When comes time to blossom into a woman you can’t let anything stop you. I believe in you If you want to You can do it.
10.
WHY CAN’T YOU BE KIND? There’s something I was taught There’s something I was taught “Unto the least of these” By folks who’ve gone on
To do wrong by me But I there’s still something I desperately believe About about our purpose as humanity And the way I want to live And I won’t stop until I die Don’t understand why you won’t try To live with a some compassion To make better life just happen Cause when all was said and done You just cut and run I can’t understand WHY CAN’T YOU BE KIND? Seriously? Do you think poverty is a moral failure? I’m not here to brag about what I’ve done It’s never enough and there’s always more But you see a human in need? Why would you disparage them I know we can’t all give I understand the strength of circumstance But your attitude and judgment Over the victims of chance Makes me sick It’s stacked against us Each other’s all we ever have Solidarity and unity By deed and by act There’s something I was taught And you’re just standing by And casting blame Who’re you to judge Another human being? If I asked for help Would you not give it to me? Why the disconnect here I just don’t see Don’t all deserve Help in times of need Standing with each other As we live and breathe On this hill I’ll die But as long as I can stand I’m helping out my humans And I don’t understand WHY CAN’T YOU BE KIND WHY CAN’T YOU BE KIND WHY CAN’T YOU BE KIND WHY CAN’T YOU BE KIND WHY CAN’T YOU BE KIND WHY CAN’T YOU BE KIND WHY CAN’T YOU BE KIND WHY CAN’T YOU BE KIND WHY CAN’T YOU BE KIND WHY CAN’T YOU BE KIND WHY CAN’T YOU BE KIND WHY CAN’T YOU BE KIND WHY CAN’T YOU BE KIND WHY CAN’T YOU BE KIND WHY CAN’T YOU BE KIND WHY CAN’T YOU BE KIND WHY CAN’T YOU BE KIND WHY CAN’T YOU BE KIND

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The sophomore EP. I'm not trying to make hardcore queer, I'm trying to make the queers hardcore.

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released September 10, 2023

Performance and production by Jessica Amelia.

Special thanks once again to Paul, Jeremy, Amber and Cait; and of course my spouse Laura.

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The Obvious Tells Burlington, Vermont

The Obvious Tells is a punk/hardcore/d-beat band of the decidedly queer and trans variety, by Jessica Amelia, a trans woman living in Burlington, Vermont.

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